Starving your man sexually is capable of breaking your marriage, wife please take note

Sexlessness in marriage is a terrible condition to befall any marriage: It is a state of motionlessness in marriage, because sex is a marriage lubricant that smoothen every rough edges in any marriage.

Sex is power and the potency of this act is manifested in the products it brings.

The products are:

-Children

-Grandchildren

-Great Grand Children

We all are products of sex between our respective parents at one time or the other.

What you should not do in your marriage:

Don't starve him/her of Sex: Sex is a binding union and action between a man and woman with their bodies. Some expert has it in their record that there is a mismatch sexual desire in one third of marriages between couples.

Do you find yourself doing any of the following?

Ø Blaming one another so frequent even on some minor issues that normally shouldn’t raze an eye brow?

Ø Don't want your spouse to get amorous: so you opt to bed early or late

Ø Lying on bed carefully so you don't get to touch your spouse?

Ø Being sexual just out of guilt and not genuinely because you want to make love to him/her?

Ø Frequently arguing with your spouse whenever sex is mention?

These and many more are some of the things couples do when they don't want each other, it is dangerous to any marriage to say the least and no marriage is encourage to thread this path please.

Or you find out that you are actually thinking about things like

--I have a lot on my mind at the moment; sex is not just in the list

--If he was not a sexual addict or fanatics you might just have wished to make some love with him/her

--IF only you were a bit nicer and more friendly I would have change my mind

--there is no privacy anywhere, the children are all over the place

--Why does he always touch me sexually?

--If you are as hard working as I am, may be you would understand how I am feeling right now better

All this is some of the reason we horridly give as to why we don’t feel the urge and the passion for sex with our partners.

It is not very encouraging when flimsy reason as the ones above are given most of the time to defend the inability of one partner or both to satisfy their sexual urges and desires in a marriage.

Don’t abandon her when she is Honey:

It is a dangerous thing for a man to leave a woman hanging just because he is annoyed with her, for crying out loud, she is your wife, try and understand her shortcomings and blend accordingly.

Most of the time men have to learn to understand the body language of their spouses, women’s anatomy is quite different from men, and men can make love all the time if they have the erection, but women are different.

They are turn on by so many things, including sexual languages and body movement, masculine deep voice most of the time turns women on, without the man realizing what has just happened.

Effects of Starving your Spouse of Sex:

The following are the effects of sexual starvation:

Flirting:

Starving your spouse constantly of sex has the ability to aid their chances of getting promiscuous in other to satisfy their sexual desires.

Promiscuity:

Sexual starvation is a highway to the world of promiscuity, please save your marriage by avoiding anything that will prompt your spouse to look elsewhere.

Separation:

Sexual starvation between couples has the capability of breaking up the marriage if steps are not taken to correct the anomaly.

Note: Marriage is love and love is best express through sex. Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life Proverbs 4:23. love is a beautiful and sex is the culmination of this great love.

Wishing you merry Christmas and happy a married life.

Cheers.