How to keep your romance alive:marriage tips and advice

Keeping a lively romantic love is a big deal and only those whose minds are made up are able to achieve this feet.

Marriage is challenging and one need to braze up fully to the challenges.

To keep a marriage alive is one thing while it is another to make the living marriage romantic and yet another to make it lovely.

Take note: There is a world of differences between romance and love; we shall talk about them later on this page.

The basics tips for a romantic marriage are

a. Honesty: Honesty is very important in any relationship because it brings people closer. If you are honest people will put their trust in you, if you are honest with your spouse, there is no other thing that is greater than that other than the love you have.

But you and I know that love can not work alone in isolation, love need other love-like attributes and characters, love will take you no where without the deployment of other attributes like we said earlier on.

b. Respect: Respect is a pillar in the midst of husband and wife, man and woman, Bride and Groom. Respect they say is reciprocal: meaning if you show me some degree of respect, I’ll correspond too and show you some, more like if you want some: come get some.

Respect carries so much weight in every relationship and it is quite unfortunate that so many married couples tend to give little attention to this issue.

No couples can work hand in hand if they lack respect for one another, one thing very peculiar with the subject of respect is the fact that one can actually pretend about it. And that where it is very dangerous, because respect has a way of manifesting itself.

c. Integrity: Integrity is a virtue that is worth more than gold, it is simply priceless; it is a state of living for what you believe in, a person of integrity is a person with dignity.

Endeavour to have a good reputation both outside and inside the home, in your dealings with the children, in-laws, uncles and aunts as well as nephews and nieces: don’t loose guard at any time to compromise your integrity. Value it as much as life, because integrity is what will speak when you are far beyond this world.

d. Sincerity: Sincerity is essential for the success of every home and marriages, it is so vital that no marriage can be said to be successful without a dose of this factor.

It is so important in the life of couples, it is the glue that holds the couples trust, if you looses your partners’ confidence: Watch out, sincerity is at the root cause.

Being sincere is a better way of letting your actions speak for you rather than just your words, cultivate this habit and your marriage will blossom.

e. Togetherness: Being together, doing things together, going to church, mosque, functions and occasional market together is a very important way to build and enhance every marriage. The ripple effect of actions like these can not be quantified, it simply an indispensable thing to do if you desire a healthy, financial buoyancy and marital cohesion.

Endeavour to do every thing including the least important together with your spouse; it is a better way of communicating together.

The advice for keeping this attribute alive

1. Practice what you say: Don’t expect your spouse to be the super man or the super woman while you are doing little or nothing on your own part, remember all the fingers work together for greater cohesion, one or two fingers can not do what the whole hand can do, so please, make sure you are doing what you believe, and what you want from your spouse, first of all, do that thing.

2. Make your spouse your best friend: Be a friend to your spouse, befriending your spouse, is a way of making your spouses to be your closest ally, no distrust, disharmony is allowed in this kind of a relationship, and relationships that are build on this virtue seldom collapse.

3. Don't chose to be solo most of the time, because you are now one: Do every thing as one mind and one union, don’t overly want to be alone most of the time, i understand there are times one want to be alone may be for private lesson, or quite time, try and make it a habit to do such things with your spouse and you will find out that the result will be outstandingly outstanding in every respect.

4. Avoid undue external influence in your home: Don't allow outside or external influences to have a way of influencing decision that you and you spouse make, please filter all information and remove the harmful traits from any one that is not in tandem with what you guys stand for.

Make your marriage to be an institution that it is by setting rules that will be difficult to be influence by others.

5. Make your marriage your number one job description: Your marriage should be your main job, make it to be a cardinal by which you revolve other activities, because once the activities of the marriage is not put in the right perspective, all others will suffer from the hang over. Marriage is secret so handle it with the seriousness it deserves.

6. Cultivate your marriage so you can reap the reward later: Cultivate you marriage with the hope of reaping bountifully, this is a good mindset toward attaining set goals and objective, your marriage will be full of fun, joy and happiness when you cultivate it with the hope of reaping the returns in the future.

Train your Children well: The Children are the fruit of every marriage, train them the way and manner they should go and when they grow, they will never depart from the way you showed them while they were young.

Conclusion:

The important of marriage can not be over emphasize, marriage institution still remain the number one training ground for all humans, over 95% of the world population are born into a family units, it is therefore a very vital part of the society, the combinations of virtues and characters from children in various homes, determines the norms of every society, let join hands together to make our home the best that it could be, thanks.