Not Enjoying Sex After Marriage:Causes and Solutions

Many marriages have suffered set backs because the partners aren’t' attracted to each other again as it use to be before getting married, the causes varies.

Sexless marriage is a terrible situation that I don’t even wish my enemy to be in that kind of a situation. It is a problem that can destroy any marriage.

The problem can be form the side of the man or from the side of the woman.

On the male side the following can be the reason why a man is no longer enjoying sex with his beloved wife

a. Depression: The problem with depression is that it is a silence killer and can destroy any one within months. Depression is a serious problem in sexual relationship. It brings everything to a stand still, it is depresses the mind, body and the urge for sex flies away.

b. Moody nature of Wife: A woman is all a man is interested with in this life, women do what the do because of men, likewise men too, it is vice versa, there are many a times I really I’m in the mood to appreciate my wife in a wonderful way but only want it to be a surprise only to end up being let down by her.

The moody nature of women and men can turn their spouses off, it is a vice that has to be discouraged among couples, it is a separating catalyst and not a positive catalyst.

c. Man or woman having Affair outside the matrimonial home: This is a serious issue, it tears marriages apart, and it is a silence killer, once that is very potent in its ability to ruin any home. When your spouse is having an affair outside, be sure to face lots of rejection whenever sexual advances are made by you.

It is not difficult to know if your spouse is cheating, be attentive to their body language and you will definitely understand the rhythms of their action and proffer a solution that is not necessarily violence or confrontational, but be logical and persuasive all the time until you achieve your aim.

What do I mean?

When your spouse cheat, be sure to find out the details before embarking on the next line of action which is:

Talking:

Call your spouse and fixed an appointment more like new lovers who are head over heal with one another in love show.

Take him or she logically with what you have notice and observe, and be sure not to be violence, maturity is what will win your spouse back to yourself. This is very effective in most cases; it has solve many headache for many couples who never thought they will have it that smooth once again. Yours can never be any different either.

Are you having problems with your marital sex life?

There are many factors that are responsible for bad sex life in marriages, whatever it is, we shall Endeavour to broaden our perspective over wide range of possibilities in other to arrive at a conclusion.

Do you which there are something you could do to change the condition whereby you are medically ok, you can't enjoy sex or have the urge for it?

Tips to follow for improve sexual activities in marriage:

Sexless and Loveless marriage:

This is a condition where there is no sex and there is no love yet the couples are married, the problem can be either lack of interest on each other and they just live together for living sake.

The Solution to a sexless marriage is talking about the problem, avoiding the problem can cause and indeed will cause more harm to the relationship and the family.

Face conflict when there is need to:

Avoiding conflict will in no way help your sexual desire, one of the ways to build on a relationship is to make love with your spouse may be after heated argument or disagreement or even a fight, the outcome is always so refreshing, because it feels great to settle after a heat.

Flirting:

Flirting is a major reason why spouses dislike each other, it feels bad to know that your spouse flirt, please desist from this act if you are into it as a married person. It is killing your home without your knowledge.

Praises:

Adore and praise your spouse when they have done what you least expect, it goes a long way to tell them how much they mean to you, and this will prompt them to do much more.

Past Life: Don’t allow your past to have any place in your present sex-wise, it will dampen your moral and urge for sex, don’t categories your husband in the same page with your ex, doing so will doom your home.

Practice rare Sexual position:

One fun way for couples to make love is to constantly experiment with new sexual techniques and positions, your bodies are for one another, make maximum use of it for the satisfaction of your sexual desires and adventures.

To Wives:

Don’t ever deny your husband sex whenever you are very honey, doing so is to your own disadvantages, always try to lure him into your thighs whenever you feel that way and you can be sure that it feels different to make love with a woman when she is honey and men, love those times when their spouses are high. This is what marriages is all about. Please save your marriage now by resolving this sexual puzzle that is threatening your unity.