how to avoid sexless marriage in a godly relationship:Advice and tips

A sexless marriage is a marriage on it way to destruction:

It is meaningless to think of any marriage and not mention sex.

Sex is a mutual, feeling between partners for the good of their union, it is an attraction that binds couples together.

It is a marriage that is plague with problems, because sexless marriage is a problem on it own, it is an headache for the couples, it need to be holistically look at and solutions proffered

Though there are some excuses here and there regarding this kind of feelings. Let look at some

Need for Intimacy:

Sexless couples make a way for themselves by seeking the alternatives, in other to satisfy their fleshy desires just because intimacy desire has to be fulfilled.

This is how strong intimacy is, every man and woman has the natural urge to be admired and get intimate with opposite sex. A sexless marriage is a highway to look for intimacy elsewhere. It is a dangerous trend in marriage and one is strongly advice to beware of this trend.

Wants to Get Away With It:

Having another affair is never ever going to solve the problem of sexless marriage because it will only heap up more problems.

Advice for men:

Men have to find a way to get their spouse on the right tract for sex once more by being pro-active in their approach, many reason may be behind the sexless marriage, some of which can be handle by the coupes if they are determine to.

For the fact that your wife stop having sex is not enough reason to categorize your marriage as sexless, sexless marriage in this context is a marriage that the couples are living together without making love for up to 6 months and beyond without any reasonable reason whatsoever

Sexless marriage is a sign to the man that he is not in control of things the way he is suppose to be. Men are the head of the home and as such should be at the forefront of proffering solutions to every problem that arises in their marriage, don’t wait for your wife to make the move as her approach might upset you and nothing comes out of it after all.

Sexless marriage can also mean too little sex in that marriage, say once or twice in every three months, is not a good sex life at all, no matter the reason other than medical or sickness.

Advice for Women:

For the women, men at times might have low desire for sex, either they are tired or are depresses, or the woman they married is not as attractive as before, try to talk to your husband about the problem and both of you can work your way out from your trouble without spending your hard end money looking for the advice of marriage counselors when you guys can counsel one another seamlessly.

Advice for the Couples: The couples have to talk a lot; they have to learn to be honest and sincere with one another.

Honesty: Don’t compromise the important of this virtue in marriage, it is a virtue that is at the fore front of marriage building process, it makes a marriage to be strong.

Faithfulness: don’t cheat and don’t lie, be faithful to your spouse at all times.

Rejuvenated Love Life: A rejuvenated love life is a love life that was sexless brought back to sexual; it takes lots of determination and commitment from the part of the couple to achieve this feet.

Strong Point:

Sex is a pillar in marriage, it is a problem settler, it settles trouble mind, it cools the nerve and rejuvenate the mind for greater efficiency.

Effective Sex Benefits:

Stronger relationship

Greater corporation

Buoyancy in marriage

Dedicated commitment

Good family

Godly Children

Godly society

What else can we say, marriage is a good thing and a good thing remains good when the thing that makes it to be good continue to be good.